Anonymous 发表于 2022-7-11 15:33:20

讨好型人格不懂拒绝太难了，帮同事带了两个月早饭不知道怎么拒绝

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小丸子。 发表于 2022-7-12 15:08:28

我也有点这个

天龙哥的小迷妹 发表于 2022-7-12 16:15:24

直接说明拒绝吧

時光擱準⑾ 发表于 2022-7-18 06:26:03

直接说明拒绝吧
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