丽丽子 发表于 2022-9-3 10:45:37

都这么在意能不能收回份子钱，那都不送不就得了，这不方便多了

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深海的那一抹蓝 发表于 2022-9-4 19:25:05

我也不太喜欢随份子的事

独行客x 发表于 2022-9-4 20:07:29

随礼不能多，意思一下就好。

小丸子。 发表于 2022-9-3 14:28:03

那肯定不一样啦 有来有往才好

六月飞雪1 发表于 2022-9-3 19:42:01

这是感情的投入，

缥渺 发表于 2022-9-3 21:06:14

我也不太喜欢随份子的事

Mikikiki 发表于 2022-9-4 12:25:40

都不随肯定好啊，但是谈不妥啊

陈龙阳 发表于 2022-9-4 12:45:14

有些事情真的不好说啊

1527029559 发表于 2022-9-4 14:11:56

这个不好评论

星云1 发表于 2022-9-4 16:03:53

不知道说什么

Anonymous 发表于 2022-9-4 19:25:16

不知道说什么
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